The last time we went on a driving tour in West Malaysia with my mother-in-law was back in October 2016 - more than seven years ago (Read here). That journey had taken us through the states of Terengganu and Kelantan.
Earlier this year, when it became known that my sister-in-law in Batu Pahat was planning a trip to China from 22.05.24 to 31.05.24, my wife decided to take the opportunity to fly down to Johor. She wanted to spend a few days with her mother during that period and perhaps fit in a short trip or two around Batu Pahat. Since my mother-in-law, now 93 years old, is no longer likely to embark on long journeys, we planned instead for a modest 4D3N tour covering nearby destinations - Johor, Seremban, and Malacca.
It turned out to be a journey shadowed by reminders of life’s fragility. During the span of just eight days in West Malaysia, I received two sad pieces of news: first, on 27.05.24, the passing of my cousin Ellen’s mother at the age of 84, and two days later, the passing of the mother of one of my CG members, Hyen Siong who lived to the remarkable age of 104. Against this backdrop, our own trip with my mother-in-law carried a bittersweet weight. We could not escape the feeling that this might well be the last time she would be able to join us for an overnight, out-of-town adventure.
Our first stop, on Day 1 (26.05.24), was Segamat. Along the way, we drove through Parit Sulong, Pagoh, Lenga, and Bukit Kepong. My mother-in-law was especially delighted to revisit these small but historic towns - places she had known and remembered fondly from decades ago
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Day 1 Route. |
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Lontong at the Local Aroma Cafe. |
The park was the brainchild of Lim Pei Tiam, a native son of Lenga who later moved to Kuala Lumpur to build his career. Rising to success as a banker and eventually serving as a director of numerous companies, he never forgot his roots. A plaque at the park describes him as a man of “endless and deep affection” for his hometown, someone who has continuously devoted himself to its well-being despite his achievements elsewhere.
As a gift to the community, he donated RM500,000 to transform a 500 m stretch of the Muar Riverbank into this leisure park, complete with footpaths and sports facilities. It now provides a welcoming space for residents to walk, exercise, and enjoy nature - contributing to both their health and quality of life.
It is not often that one encounters such a strong sense of pride in humble origins, especially from someone who has found success on a larger stage. Lim Pei Tiam’s gesture in creating this park stands as a truly commendable act of generosity and love for his hometown, leaving a lasting legacy for both the community and its visitors.
Even close to 2 p.m., the place was still bustling with customers. Judging from the crowd, I had the impression that many were not locals but travelers in transit or visitors making it a point to stop by this popular eatery while in Segamat.
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