Although I was accepted by the university, I lacked the funds for airfare and tuition. In the end, my plan to study in the UK never materialized (Read here). Looking back, I often wonder how different my life would have been had that path opened. But as always, God's plans are greater than our own.
Fan Lan later pursued her studies in Canada and eventually settled in Toronto. Each time she returned to Kota Kinabalu for the holidays, she would, without fail, remind me of the promise I made to visit her in Canada. It was her unwavering encouragement over the years that finally prompted us to begin planning our August/September trip to Canada.
As soon as we confirmed the tour, Fan Lan generously offered to host us at her sister's home in Toronto. She had temporarily moved into her sister’s spacious mansion while her own home was undergoing renovations. Her hospitality and thoughtfulness made our travel planning all the more special.
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Grand spiral staircase. |


True to her thoughtful nature, she didn’t stop there. Wanting us to continue enjoying a taste of Canada even after we returned home, she packed several bags of freshly ground Canadian coffee for us to bring back to Kota Kinabalu. It was a simple but heartfelt gesture that spoke volumes of her warmth and generosity.


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Annabelle, granddaughter of Fan Kiok. |
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Our host took us for a dinner just before we flew back to KK.
Left: Fan Kiok & Fan Lan.
Right: Dr. Man, Fan Kiok's spouse. |