New Toy

Managed finally to get the correct automotive GPS road maps. If the one bought earlier for the Perth trip in Nov/Dec 2008 was the right model, traveling would have been a breeze ! Unfortunately I was ill-advised ! Well, managed to have it sold to a surveyor. That's a model meant for land surveyors.

Well, all is not lost. The new toy will be tested this Saturday in West Malaysia. So far, I have already found it to be a useful tool to have if one is a keen automotive traveller.

An abstract of the conversation I had with the salesman at Karamunsing Garmin Gogomotive where it was bought. After closing the deal and money changed hand.

Me: Unfortunately, couldn't use the model I bought in my recent trip to Perth.
Salesman: Ya, that's not meant for traveling purpose.
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Salesman: I used to study in Perth, Curtin.
Me: Oh, why did you come back and not stay behind?
Salesman: The place is too slow for me. KK has a faster pace of life.
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Me: Is this your shop?
Salesman: No, belongs to my cousin's father-in-law. .........Oh. This is my name card.
I Looked at the name card and the name looked familiar.
Me: What is your father's name?
Salesman: JY
Me: JY...JY.... Is FY your uncle ?
Salesman: Ya.
Me: Mine, mine, what a small world ! I know your father, he is my cousin (mother's side). If I had known this earlier, would have obtained a better price from you.
Salesman: Hehe, next time!

 

The Last Lecture - by Randy Pausch

I came across this through the Oprah show which I find really incredible! One of the the most profound statements he said during the interview with Oprah was this:

When someone did something wrong, the usual thing to say is "I am sorry, I was wrong !". I would like to add like this, "I am sorry, I was wrong, what should I do to make up for it !".

Though he finally passed away on 25 July 2008, I think he left behind a lasting legacy.

Great Quotes

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Revisiting Old Familiar Places......

Thanks to Jun Shi for the opportunity to revisit familiar old places.

Pondok Timpohon - Where climbers start their ascent to Mount Kinabalu.

No visitors to the National Park would miss having a quick tour of the little museum.

Along the way to Poring Hot Spring, we found this enterprising native lady who set up this road side store to solicit visitors and tourists to gaze the rafflesia which happened to bloom in her land.

The rafflesia we saw "back then" was at a different location - Tambunan Rafflesia Centre

Poring Hot Spring - At the spot where people left their foot prints!
After a dip at the Poring Hot Spring, we made a detour to the Sabah Tea Plantation at Nalapak.

We didn't miss visiting Gaya Street Sunday Market! We mingled with both locals and tourists and enjoyed the vibrancy of the Gaya Street.

You won't believe what we bought in Gaya Street that morning, cotton! Real cotton which we have been looking for all over the shops and outlets in KK all this while but failed to get. We need it for our specially hand-made pillow!

Food wise, we managed to try out two of the three introduced by Jason in Astro AEC. Other than the roasted coconut, we ate the Tuaran Mee at the founder outlet (Lok Kyun) in Tuaran and the Fish Paste Noodle at Kok Ming.

Surfing Internet- Strength or Weakness ?

This is what an employment applicant wrote in his CV:

Resolutions 2009

A subject we talked about during dinner of first day of the New Year is resolutions for 2009. The first thing that came to mind was striving for healthy lifestyle. This resolution was triggered by an earlier email from a friend on the subject of "Perks of reaching 50 and heading towards 70"

- Your joints are more accurate meteorologists than the national weather service.
- Your secrets are safe with your friends because they can't remember either.
- Your supply of brain cells is finally down to a manageable size.
- Your investment in health insurance is finally beginning to pay off.

Like what my doctor said," Eat not what you most want to eat but eat what you dislike to eat most". I know, this would be a challenge! No doubt, good health is a major concern after 50.

What next: Talk less and listen more.
There was always the urge to cut in before the other finishes his sentence. Making a conclusion before the full fact is known........
The Chinese sage was right in saying, "Words once uttered, four horses would not be able to chase them back" (translated literally).

That reminds me what are written in the Book :
"Take note of this: Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry for man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires".
"A word aptly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver".

Rare Christmas Card

When sending Christmas greetings via SMS' and emails is the norm these days, receiving a Christmas greeting card in the old fashioned way was truly precious indeed!

Think of the effort the sender went through in going to the shopping outlet, choosing the specific card, writing the message, getting the stamp and mailing it.....

Well, for this Christmas, beside cards received from business associates, we only received one card from family members- a special card from my niece and her family.

Thank again. Your effort is truly appreciated!

For our clients and business associates,we still faithfully send out the cards the old way- That's personal touch.

Another Battle Scar, RIP Eunice!

When it was announced in church this morning that Eunice Chung (Mrs. George Lo) had gone home to be with the Lord on Saturday morning, a deep heaviness filled our hearts. There was a choking in the throat, that painful awareness of helplessness when faced with the finality of death. Only the night before, on Friday, we had prayed earnestly for a miraculous intervention - that God might yet turn the tide and grant her more time with us. But His answer was different from what we hoped for.

It is often said that when one first receives salvation, the heart overflows with faith, zeal, and joy in sharing the Good News. Yet, along the journey, scars from unanswered prayers and painful losses sometimes dull that first vigour. Could this be another such scar, tempting us to grow hesitant, fearful, or weary in proclaiming the hope of salvation?

Many will find reasons to explain or justify why things had to end this way. But for those left behind, the grief is real, the silence heavy, and words often feel inadequate to comfort the pain of loss.

Yet even so, life moves forward. The world does not stop. And so must we - but not with resignation. Rather, let us treasure each day we are given, every moment with those we love, and live fully in the time God still grants us.

World's Best Pizza

We were also introduced to a little shop at Mundaring in our recent trip to Perth which serves the world's best pizza.

As to whether the claim put up by this little shop is justified or otherwise, the faces of these diners do give a bit of the clue of the verdict. Any less favourable verdict probably will come when I find another better one somewhere else latter on.

A bit of contemplation at the encounter with the so called "world's class pizza"

Fish Head Mee Soup

Fish head mee soup in Perth introduced by Meng How and serene was really good and we had to go for a second round before making back home to Sabah.

Not to be outdone by the Perthians, we also had a go of it back home (credit goes to my wife of course !) with Paul as our guest.

Welcome Home, Paul!

Love is in the Air

The months of October and November seem to be especially popular for weddings - this year alone, we’ve received nearly ten invitations! Sadly, we won’t be able to attend all of them due to scheduling conflicts and travel plans, as we’ll be away in Perth during part of the season.

Among the many wedding stories, one in particular feels almost like a movie script - the marriage of Marsha, a Malaysian Indian, to Luis Garcia, a Chilean. Their love story crosses continents, cultures, and languages. She speaks English; he speaks Spanish. She’s from Malaysia; he’s from the other side of the globe.

They met in New Zealand, where Luis was on a short-term student exchange program. Within just three months, love blossomed. After returning to Chile and completing his studies, Luis made a bold decision - he resigned from a well-paying job in Santiago and flew to Australia, simply to be closer to Marsha.

And the story ends on a high note. As if meant to be, Luis was offered a job in Kuala Lumpur - bringing him even closer to the woman he loves, and no doubt bringing great relief and joy to Marsha’s parents!

Some love stories really do defy distance, language, and cultural boundaries - and this one is a beautiful reminder that when love leads, everything else finds a way to follow.

Well, when you're truly in love, you’ll often find yourself doing things that defy logic or convention - sometimes even a little crazy! Just like Luis, who left a promising career in Santiago and flew across the world to be near Marsha.

Of course, history offers even more dramatic examples. Take King Edward VIII, who famously gave up the British throne for the woman he loved - Wallis Simpson, an American divorcee and a commoner. His decision shocked the world, but he was willing to forsake crown and country for love.

Whether it’s crossing continents or relinquishing a kingdom, love has a way of inspiring bold and sometimes unthinkable choices!

Separation Anxiety-Neutralised !

This year, celebration of my birthday was held at the 5-star Peppino and joined by Sam, a rare coincidence these days! This also happened to be Sam's parents' 30th marriage anniversary. Hence, this expensive feasting was more than justified.

Trust

Last Friday, I almost asked one of my residents engineers to "leave".

This RE (Mr. X) was posted to an east coast town to look after a project. He was entirely on his own and I would not know whether he actually carried out his work responsibly and diligently or otherwise. Everything seemed to be under control whenever I called him. Reports from other sources were that the work quality was comparatively worse off than other areas in Sabah and the work progress was also behind schedule.

Then on that Friday, another staff (supervisor) who is also posted there, told me, " Boss, I can't 'tahan' anymore and I want to tell you something". He continued, "This Mr. X has been absent from work and he was practically not on site half of the time". Immediately I called Mr. X. There was no reply even I called him twice and sms'ed him. Then, the supervisor called him in another number and Mr. X told him he was in fact in 1 Borneo Shopping Centre. Mind you, that was during office hour.

Finally, I sms'ed him using the new number and asked him to call me back. Finally, he called and when asked where he was. He answered, "I am now in Semporna".

I was really angry over such lying but I kept my cool. I told him, "I know where you are. Come and see me at 4.30 later in my office in KK". He was still trying to be funny by saying that he could not make it as he was not in KK. I said, "I do know exactly where you are. You better come to see me at 4.30!". That was 1.30pm on my way to the airport taking a flight back to KK.

By the time I reached my office at 4.45 pm, he was already waiting there. I could see he was really pale, almost shivering and almost in tears.

I had made up my mind before seeing him to ask him to go. He was extremely remorseful and begged to be given a second chance. After almost an hour of tongue lashing, I finally decided to give him another chance. One crucial factor in his favour was that this project is at the tail end and it would not be easy for someone new to take over. I showed him the resignation letter I had prepared beforehand. I said, " Well, I won't ask you to resign this time and be very very sure not to repeat this ever again". Just to add, I was diplomatic in the "tongue lashing' and was not too harsh in the words used. In Sabah, one may never know that staff you asked to "leave" may one day sit high up in some government department literally being your boss taking charge of one of your projects ! So, always have this in mind!

Trust once broken is not easy to reinstate again. Hopefully Mr. X learn his lesson and this gesture of mine would spur him to really buck up and work responsibly again.

Leadership Remembered: A Farewell Tribute

As the spouse of the outgoing Timbalan Pengarah, I was honoured to attend a farewell dinner organized by more than thirty lecturers of IPG Gaya in recognition of her past service.

The evening was marked not only by good food but, more importantly, by an outpouring of heartfelt tributes. One after another, the lecturers stood to express their appreciation. They described her as fair, approachable, humble, attentive, and always willing to help. Many lamented that her two-year tenure had been far too brief, wishing she could have continued serving at the institution. Every word spoken reflected genuine respect, admiration, and love.

“She was fair in all her dealings.”
“She was always approachable - I felt like I was talking to a friend rather than a superior.”
“She is humble.”
“She always listened to our concerns and did her best to find solutions.”
“Her two years with us were far too short. I wish she could stay longer.”

The list went on, painting a portrait of a leader who led with humility, fairness, and genuine care.

These reflections revealed the depth of her influence and the enduring respect she had earned in a relatively short period of time. It was a moving testament to the kind of leader she had been - one who combined authority with compassion, and professionalism with humility.

For me personally, it was an emotional moment, as I realized how deeply she had touched the lives of her colleagues. To witness such admiration and genuine affection was a reminder that true leadership is measured not only by position, but by the hearts one leaves behind.

The Pengarah's Residence

The single-storey house is built in an L-shaped design. One wing is dedicated to the family’s private quarters, featuring a master bedroom with an attached bathroom, along with two additional bedrooms and another shared bathroom. The other wing accommodates the functional spaces: a kitchen, two more rooms, and separate bathroom and toilet facilities for the maid. At the junction where the two wings meet lies the living room, serving as the central hub of the home.

The compound itself is expansive, set atop a hill that offers a commanding bird’s-eye view of Keningau town and the scenic landscape beyond. Its wide-open grounds provide ample space for children to run and play freely, while also making it perfect for family gatherings, outdoor activities, and barbeque evenings under the open sky.

Front view.

Huge compound to the left of the residence.

Another huge compound to the right. The tree is perfect to be decorated and lighted up as Christmas tree during Christmas!

The New Pengarah's Office

The office is cosy, well-arranged, and entirely self-contained. One corner is furnished with a table and chairs for discussions or small meetings, while another is set aside for a comfortable sofa and a TV set - perfect for short breaks or casual conversations. I noticed two desktop computers and a laptop neatly arranged, suggesting a space ready for both work and collaboration.

What makes the office even more impressive is the attached toilet and bathroom, thoughtfully equipped with a wardrobe and a water filter for convenience. Honestly, if a bed and a small kitchenette were added, this place could easily double up as a practical office-cum-living quarter! 🙂

The chap in black jacket is the Timbalan Pengarah.

Introducing the New Pengarah

As our car was about to enter the main entrance to the compound of Keningau Teachers Training Institute, I drew the attention of the "Pengarah" to a huge banner erected by the road side with the new Pengarah's picture printed on it. May be it is too large for the Pengarah to focus and she yielded, " Where! Where!". I had to literally point to the direction to get her focus.

The guard seemed to have done their homework by studying the Pengarah's portrait well in advance. So, when we drove pass, they stood attention, smiled and saluted and pointed to the direction toward the Administration Building.

As we reached the Admin. Building, another same huge banner hung right in front of the building greeted us. In my mind, it wouldn't be long when she can consider putting up herself as a candidate for the local election:).

The New Pengarah on the Way to Report for Duty

The much-anticipated day finally arrived on 12 September 2008, when the new Pengarah officially reported for duty at the Keningau Teachers Training Institute (IPG Keningau). I volunteered - half proudly, half playfully - to be her driver and escort for the journey.

Instead of taking the familiar Kota Kinabalu–Penampang-Tambunan-Keningau highway, we opted for the then-newly opened Kota Kinabalu–Papar–Kimanis–Keningau route. This highway had already attracted controversy because of its steep slopes. In some sections, the gradient reaches an astonishing 18%, well above the recommended 12%. At first, I was skeptical. But after driving through it, I realized there was little choice - after all, the road must cut across the rugged Crocker Range. Perhaps tunneling, extensive hill cutting, or even elevated highway structures could have made it more driver-friendly, but such options would have driven the cost sky-high. Understandably, economic considerations prevailed.

That said, the drive itself was nothing short of spectacular. The sweeping views alone made the journey memorable. On the return trip to Kota Kinabalu, the sight of Kimanis Bay shimmering in the distance was simply breathtaking. At certain stretches, I felt transported elsewhere - the winding descents evoked memories of the Sydney-Newcastle drive, some coastal views brought back the Great Ocean Road in Victoria, while other landscapes reminded me of my journeys to Augusta in Southwestern Australia.

For all its design flaws, the road left me with a sense of wonder, both for its daring engineering and for the memories it stirred.