Maintaining a Tradition - CNY Eve Family Reunion Dinner

Last Chinese New Year in early 2025, our home was filled with the joyful noise of a big family reunion. All three of our children’s families came back from overseas. We had a memorable evening of laughter and togetherness. The function was also joined by families of my siblings (Read here).

After spending Christmas 2025 in Singapore with Sam’s and Paul’s families in late December last year, we decided to keep this year’s Chinese New Year quieter. Even so, we continued our tradition of a reunion dinner on New Year’s Eve.

We met at my youngest brother’s home, where our parents once lived. Being there again brought back many cherished memories. Though the gathering was smaller, it remained a meaningful three-generation celebration, enriched by the presence of Caleb’s two children - Asher and Hannah.

Moments like these remind us that family bonds, love and traditions are worth treasuring.

We were especially happy to have Lisa, my sister-in-law, join us for the reunion. This was her first Chinese New Year spent on her own, without the presence of her husband - my elder brother - who passed away last October. Her presence reminded us of the enduring bonds of family, even in times of loss, and we were thankful that she could share this meaningful occasion with us.

Distributing ang-pow is a cherished tradition that every Chinese family faithfully keeps. For our families, it usually takes place after the reunion dinner. More often than not, the role of giving falls to the mothers, wives, and the younger married women.

As in previous Chinese New Years, ang-pow were again entrusted to us for delivery to our grandchildren who are living overseas. In a way, we become the “middlemen of blessings,” carrying not just red packets, but also the affection and well-wishes of the elders across the seas.

And in return, we reciprocate by presenting ang-pow to the young children here on behalf of our own children who are abroad. Though oceans separate us, the tradition continues - binding generations together through this simple yet meaningful exchange of love and blessings.